Our System Terminology

Terms we use for our system

  • Wayward Protector: Our term for Persecutor

  • Soother: Alters who soothe

  • Nurturer: Alters that nurture things like self-esteem

  • Calm Alter: Alter that helps calm the host's anxiety.

  • Support: Alter that helps support through words or fronting

  • Pain-holder: Helps cope with physical pain

  • Calm Protector: A protector that is more of a diplomatic protector

  • T-holder: Trauma holder

  • Host: For us, this is the one that identifies with the body and has been living life with the body the most

  • Co-host: Basically a system manager of sorts

  • Mother part: Feminine parts that watch over littles

  • Father part: Masculine parts that watch over littles

  • Helper: Parts that help with a certain aspect of life whether internally or externally

  • S-protector: Sexual protector/alter

  • Memory-Keeper: Keeps all memories and decides who gets which memories and for how long.

  • Soots: Memory Fragments (Ours manifest as soot-stars in the inner world)

  • System Manager: The Alter that helps manage the alters and thier jobs in the system. They make sure everyone knows thier role or job and that they do those jobs. Also manages Wayward Protectors and makes sure they don't give into unhealthy coping mechanisms.